egsxr600
03-28-2006, 04:40 PM
Why would you get mad at your husband for talking to a lady admiring your baby? Would you accuse your husband of cheating? Would you ask for a divorce? Please fill me in..... I dont understand my wife.... :headscrat
Why do you married ladies get mad at your husband?egsxr600 03-28-2006, 04:40 PM Why would you get mad at your husband for talking to a lady admiring your baby? Would you accuse your husband of cheating? Would you ask for a divorce? Please fill me in..... I dont understand my wife.... :headscrat BallHawk3 03-28-2006, 05:19 PM Why would you get mad at your husband for talking to a lady admiring your baby? Would you accuse your husband of cheating? Would you ask for a divorce? Please fill me in..... I dont understand my wife.... :headscrat
lol....Hilarious.
Still on thin Ice with your wife? lol. Honestly, I wouldn't go out or marry a woman that was like that. Don't need the drama. SimmCity 03-28-2006, 06:18 PM lol....Hilarious.
Still on thin Ice with your wife? lol. Honestly, I wouldn't go out or marry a woman that was like that. Don't need the drama.
+1million over200 03-28-2006, 06:29 PM EVERY ONE OF THEM!!!!!!!!!.....................PSYCODRAMANALISM!!!.......That's the Disease they R born with!!!!!!!!!...Live with them or Live free You do have a Choice. :infrandom GSXRCHICK 03-28-2006, 07:16 PM Why would you get mad at your husband for talking to a lady admiring your baby? Would you accuse your husband of cheating? Would you ask for a divorce? Please fill me in..... I dont understand my wife.... :headscrat
Come on now you got to be kidding me, mad at that, I would say that your wife must be very insecure if she is getting all uptight about that, is this the only thing she is upset about or is this just half of the story... egsxr600 03-28-2006, 07:30 PM Come on now you got to be kidding me, mad at that, I would say that your wife must be very insecure if she is getting all uptight about that, is this the only thing she is upset about or is this just half of the story...
Thats what i'm thinking... there is no reason for her to be bitching at me about that crap.... She's married to me and we have a baby together... I deserve atleast the respect and faith from her..... what am I to do? slack0Yd 03-28-2006, 07:40 PM I say talk to her, and if that doesnt work, ignore her kinda when this subject comes up again. If you don't give her any reason to worry and you support her in the things she does, its her issue and not yours. Now thats kinda like saying my left legs all messed up but I'll walk just fine cuz I got a good right leg. Its a joined at the hip kinda thing. But, if you tone down your end and don't feed the flames, maybe she'll have time to think about it. Then talk about it later. I think the main thing is that you have to keep your head level and do not make the problem worse. Good Luck! Smcneally 03-28-2006, 08:02 PM Pimp her out for $$. $$ is gut. Sehr gut. cpat 03-28-2006, 08:02 PM without knowing the other half of the story, here are 3 questions.....
1. Does she have any reason (prior extra-curricular activities?) to suspect there's any chance you might cheat?
2. Is she feeling insecure because maybe she's worried you don't find her attractive after the baby?
3. How pissed is she going to be that you posted this on an internet forum instead of talking to her about your problems? yellow&black04 03-28-2006, 08:24 PM 3. How pissed is she going to be that you posted this on an internet forum instead of talking to her about your problems?
:funny: GSXRCHICK 03-28-2006, 08:32 PM Thats what i'm thinking... there is no reason for her to be bitching at me about that crap.... She's married to me and we have a baby together... I deserve atleast the respect and faith from her..... what am I to do?
Well I would say definately talk to her and see why she feels this way. Maybe she doesnt feel attractive since she had the baby and maybe you should give her some extra security and confidence that she needs right now. I can say from experience that going through child birth is a whole different experience and it puts your body through alot of changes and will send you through a roller coaster ride before getting back to normal and some people never get back to normal. It might take her some time to get over this feeling and I would say if your marriage is worth saving then if she doesnt start feeling better then maybe she should seek some medical attention, alot of women develop some major depression while going through this life change. If you truely love her, dont give up on her. BallHawk3 03-28-2006, 08:52 PM Come on now you got to be kidding me, mad at that, I would say that your wife must be very insecure if she is getting all uptight about that, is this the only thing she is upset about or is this just half of the story...
+1
she sounds very insecure. egsxr600 03-28-2006, 10:30 PM without knowing the other half of the story, here are 3 questions.....
1. Does she have any reason (prior extra-curricular activities?) to suspect there's any chance you might cheat?---No...School and home thats it...Dont believe in cheating...
2. Is she feeling insecure because maybe she's worried you don't find her attractive after the baby?---Maybe thats it.... she did mention that the girl talking to me looked good.... Maybe so...
3. How pissed is she going to be that you posted this on an internet forum instead of talking to her about your problems?---Very pissed
:headscrat BallHawk3 03-28-2006, 10:31 PM dude, fuck this thread. Just post up pics of your wife. :lol: egsxr600 03-28-2006, 10:32 PM Well I would say definately talk to her and see why she feels this way. Maybe she doesnt feel attractive since she had the baby and maybe you should give her some extra security and confidence that she needs right now. I can say from experience that going through child birth is a whole different experience and it puts your body through alot of changes and will send you through a roller coaster ride before getting back to normal and some people never get back to normal. It might take her some time to get over this feeling and I would say if your marriage is worth saving then if she doesnt start feeling better then maybe she should seek some medical attention, alot of women develop some major depression while going through this life change. If you truely love her, dont give up on her.
:thumbup: Never doubted that we will stay together.... But i doubth that I'll stay sane during the course of it.... :headshake egsxr600 03-28-2006, 10:33 PM dude, fuck this thread. Just post up pics of your wife. :lol:
LOL!!!! :thefinger BallHawk3 03-28-2006, 10:35 PM LOL!!!! :thefinger
come on, post em up. Prove to me your not insecure. LOL moochiemack 03-29-2006, 01:07 AM Don't Sweat It Man, You Didn't Do Anything Wrong. Tell Her It's Her Fault For Having Such A Beautiful Baby. That Should Calm Her Down. FuzioN 03-29-2006, 05:09 AM shes bored. egsxr600 03-29-2006, 05:20 AM Thanks you guys... she is much cooler with me this morning.. "Tell Her It's Her Fault For Having Such A Beautiful Baby." -moochiemack Thats what I told her and she cracked a smile at me... I'm better now thank you guys for marital support and advice... on a motorcycle forum... :) I need to get some real-life friends huh? Smcneally 03-29-2006, 05:43 AM Yeah, seriously.
How can we assess the situation without a picture? GSXR-Rider 03-29-2006, 05:51 AM Women are fucking ridiculous… the only thing worse than a women who bitches all the time is the man who lets her get away with it… take my friend for example… his girlfriend is a huge bitch… Lets set aside the fact that she is ugly, looks like a boy, and has zero tits. She acts like she is fucking Jessica Simpson (quite a fine peace of ass). When I talk to my friend he is always like, “let me check with her,” or, “she won’t let me do that.” My advice to anyone who has a girlfriend like this is to kick them to the curb ASAP. :2hard :2hard :2hard :2hard :2hard :2hard
Bro… Sorry to hear your wife is like that. SuzukiGirl 03-29-2006, 05:55 AM you probably cheated on her before to make her feel that way.
I would never do that.. like get mad at you for talking to another woman for admiring you all's baby. I however will take ur bike out and riding till 2am every single day to teach you not to talk to other women :D :thumbup: TheJoker 03-29-2006, 06:14 AM I however will take ur bike out and riding till 2am every single day to teach you not to talk to other women :D :thumbup:
ouch... burnoutboy 03-29-2006, 08:27 AM I've developed a theory over the years. Every woman that's worth a damn in bed is off her rocker. You just need one that has a good grip on the chair. FuzioN 03-29-2006, 10:06 AM Thanks you guys... she is much cooler with me this morning.. "Tell Her It's Her Fault For Having Such A Beautiful Baby." -moochiemack Thats what I told her and she cracked a smile at me... I'm better now thank you guys for marital support and advice... on a motorcycle forum... :) I need to get some real-life friends huh?
sometimes getting advice from strangers works best.. no biased opinion and all that nonsense.. Engloid 03-29-2006, 06:37 PM I say talk to her, and if that doesnt work, ignore her kinda when this subject comes up again.
I tried that with my EX. I finally broke down and said something like this:
"If you really think I'm cheating, STFU and catch me. Don't be so fucking stupid as to tip me off that you're suspicious, so that I can be more careful. Catch me, or STFU!!"
It seemed to sink in to her deranged mind.
When I talk to my friend he is always like, “let me check with her,” or, “she won’t let me do that.” My advice to anyone who has a girlfriend like this is to kick them to the curb
If you want to be treated like a man, you have to act like a man..and it sounds like your friend is a pussy. I've been with my wife for nearly 7 years and she'd not even think about telling me what I can/cannot do. Of course that doesn't include stuff like doing other women. :D I ride when I want, with who I want, and take her along if I want. I eat what I want, spend money on what I want, etc... I treat her with respect and dignity, and expect the same from her.
My theory on choosing women:
Find women that have only male friends or about 80% of their friends are male. This isn't hard to do. Now, narrow down the pool a bit more by determining which of this group are sluts that are screwing all the guys. Of course this is even easier to do. The group of women left are typically going to be cool women that don't bitch and nag over stupid shit. SimmCity 03-30-2006, 02:47 AM Don't Sweat It Man, You Didn't Do Anything Wrong. Tell Her It's Her Fault For Having Such A Beautiful Baby. That Should Calm Her Down.
Spoken like a true P.I.M.P. Hey you sound fromiliar. Don't they call you the Date Doctor Hitched or is it the Dick doctor Dicked! SuzukiGirl 03-30-2006, 05:36 AM ouch...
i know im so cruel!
:lol: PHiBRELiNX 03-30-2006, 08:20 AM B i t c h e s ,...everyone of 'em.
They're all the same whether they say they're not.
Spank her really good 'till she screams "Im not mad at you anymore" multiple times... G-FORCE 03-30-2006, 05:14 PM Also if she is cheating on you she might think your doind the same so mabey you should look at that have ago straight back if your male or female chances are there the ones cheating. happen to me so i did the same :funny: egsxr600 03-30-2006, 05:31 PM Also if she is cheating on you she might think your doind the same so mabey you should look at that have ago straight back if your male or female chances are there the ones cheating. happen to me so i did the same :funny:
Monkey see, monkey do.... Never tried that.... Bad karma comes back ten-fold. MotoGQ 03-30-2006, 07:10 PM Usually, when one party is cheating, they try to make it seem the other is cheating so they don't feel so guilty.
Or she's very chemically imbalanced right now due having the baby. egsxr600 03-31-2006, 07:10 PM Usually, when one party is cheating, they try to make it seem the other is cheating so they don't feel so guilty.
Or she's very chemically imbalanced right now due having the baby.
"Or she's very chemically imbalanced right now due having the baby." MotoGQ
I think thats it.... she was jelous that the girls was looking hot and was actually kinda flirting with me.... as she says. I was not flirting though, was barely even carrying a conversation... too busy carrying the baby. lwrdgsxr750 04-01-2006, 04:19 AM its called attention and she knows your not giving it to her by talking to that other women so she trys to make u feel bad and start to fight with u so she gets the attention... but little do women know if we are going to cheat they cant stop it..... egsxr600 04-01-2006, 04:51 AM its called attention and she knows your not giving it to her by talking to that other women so she trys to make u feel bad and start to fight with u so she gets the attention... but little do women know if we are going to cheat they cant stop it.....
"but little do women know if we are going to cheat they cant stop it...." lwrdgsxr750... Not true for all men... plus depending on who their with wether the lady is good or fine as hell.... Industry 04-02-2006, 05:02 PM Sounds like Hormones to me. Is this what I have to look forward to? Oh Shit............ egsxr600 04-03-2006, 11:39 AM Sounds like Hormones to me. Is this what I have to look forward to? Oh Shit............
not all the time. G-FORCE 04-07-2006, 10:08 PM But come on you can tell us that you realy did want to do that other chick right common you can tell us lol we wont tell your wife. :funny: Princeslea79 04-10-2006, 12:14 PM "Or she's very chemically imbalanced right now due having the baby." MotoGQ
I think thats it.... she was jelous that the girls was looking hot and was actually kinda flirting with me.... as she says. I was not flirting though, was barely even carrying a conversation... too busy carrying the baby.
Quick explanation of a woman after a baby (ecspecially a first baby) Dude you have what I like to call the "Lioness" on your hands right now, first of all women are straight *itches to eachother Bro, sometimes straight out and sometimes more subbliminal s/p?... Anyways after your first kid you have serious hormone level problems and emotional things to deal with, your body is in ruins (or so you feel) after your first kid, I mean damn men usually don't have this hit them till there mid life crisis when they loose a few hairs on there heads and gain a few pounds...please! Anyways what happened is that nice looking (probably childless chick, minus scars of labor ect) saw you with your new baby and thought "hmmm, Nice looking, Provider, with his self concious just had a kid old lady, prime time for me to show how "Cute" I am" I know that you had no idea what was going on but trust me your wife felt like taking that little cutsy chick down and riping her little head off :laughingr But relax just show her you love her tell her how much more beautiful she is now that she has beared your child and soon she will be back to her confident self that could care less if Pamela Anderson was "Flirting" with you! :thumbup: Engloid 04-10-2006, 03:45 PM ...tell her how much more beautiful she is now that she has beared your child :thumbup:
Just come out and tell her that you're a spinless pussy, and you'll kiss her moody ass whenever she even thinks about wanting you to do it. :thumbup:
Fuck, if a woman wants to hear this shit, she should be a fucking lesbian!! Princeslea79 04-13-2006, 07:54 PM Just come out and tell her that you're a spinless pussy, and you'll kiss her moody ass whenever she even thinks about wanting you to do it. :thumbup:
Fuck, if a woman wants to hear this shit, she should be a fucking lesbian!!
Most of us women do not want any ass kissing :headshake ....and I would not consider giving your spouse some respect and appreciation (obviously you have never been pregnant) "Ass Kissing or being a Spinless P*ssy" That would be the dude that is self centered, selfish and could probably use some advice from a Lesbian cuz she is getting more cookie time than he could ever dream of :yumyum: :infrandom :funny: Engloid 04-13-2006, 08:03 PM I can promise you that my wife is happy...and I don't kiss her ass.... unless you mean in a literal sense. :D mikcoff 04-14-2006, 02:24 PM Just come out and tell her that you're a spinless pussy, and you'll kiss her moody ass whenever she even thinks about wanting you to do it. :thumbup:
Fuck, if a woman wants to hear this shit, she should be a fucking lesbian!!
I take it has been awail since you have been with a woman! :D Engloid 04-14-2006, 04:02 PM I take it has been awail since you have been with a woman! :D
Yeah, this morning. :twofinger
Act like a man, get treated like one. Act like a pussy, and they'll treat you like one. I do what I want, when I want, spend my money how I want, etc...
she does the same. mikcoff 04-15-2006, 09:06 AM Yeah, this morning. :twofinger
Act like a man, get treated like one. Act like a pussy, and they'll treat you like one. I do what I want, when I want, spend my money how I want, etc...
she does the same.
And how much did you pay for that sex you had this morning :funny: Engloid 04-15-2006, 01:01 PM And how much did you pay for that sex you had this morning :funny:
ummmm she made me go riding at the Dragon today? :bounce Lyte- 04-16-2006, 09:42 AM I tried that with my EX. I finally broke down and said something like this:
"If you really think I'm cheating, STFU and catch me. Don't be so fucking stupid as to tip me off that you're suspicious, so that I can be more careful. Catch me, or STFU!!"
It seemed to sink in to her deranged mind.
If you want to be treated like a man, you have to act like a man..and it sounds like your friend is a pussy. I've been with my wife for nearly 7 years and she'd not even think about telling me what I can/cannot do. Of course that doesn't include stuff like doing other women. :D I ride when I want, with who I want, and take her along if I want. I eat what I want, spend money on what I want, etc... I treat her with respect and dignity, and expect the same from her.
My theory on choosing women:
Find women that have only male friends or about 80% of their friends are male. This isn't hard to do. Now, narrow down the pool a bit more by determining which of this group are sluts that are screwing all the guys. Of course this is even easier to do. The group of women left are typically going to be cool women that don't bitch and nag over stupid shit.
Hahaha thats me with all male friends and only like a few cool female friends...
on a side note i don't care if my man is going to talk to a lady (i don't plan on having kids so it wouldn't be about that) hell there is this girl that throws her self all over james every time he goes to his second job (chick avoids me when i was there and never said a word to me) all i do is laugh at his stories of how much he hates her and how annoying she is... i tell him what do you want me to do .... im not gona go there acting all irate and jealous over some chick... cause then he will think its cool for him to act all pissy when some dude is hitting on me (not that he doesn't already do that) Engloid 04-16-2006, 11:37 AM Hahaha thats me with all male friends and only like a few cool female friends...
on a side note i don't care if my man is going to talk to a lady (i don't plan on having kids so it wouldn't be about that) hell there is this girl that throws her self all over james every time he goes to his second job (chick avoids me when i was there and never said a word to me) all i do is laugh at his stories of how much he hates her and how annoying she is... i tell him what do you want me to do .... im not gona go there acting all irate and jealous over some chick... cause then he will think its cool for him to act all pissy when some dude is hitting on me (not that he doesn't already do that)
It's really just simple logic, isn't it? So many women want one thing, yet they go the opposite direction to get it.
For example: "You don't ever get me flowers..." whine whine nag, nag...
Doesn't that make a guy want to buy her flowers!!!???
"You don't give me enough attention" ...yeah, same thing.
If you treat a guy so good that he feels lucky to have you, he will treat you well...if he doesn't, then he's obviously the wrong guy for you and you need to go elsewhere.
Like I said, it's just logic, yet so many women don't see it. Lyte- 04-16-2006, 12:04 PM i totally agree... he may not be the smartest guy in the world but he smart enough to know he is lucky as hell to have me (seeing how well kept he is) he is the one scared im going to cheat on him not the other way around.... but for me its not worth it.. i mean i have had the offers... damn good offeres i must say... but in the end it does come down to treat people the way you want to be treated your self...
if i was being logical i would go with the dude making 100k+ a year instead of staying with my boy who barely pulls down less then 1/2 what i do.. logical is not always the correct way to do things... i feel you treat people the way you want to be treated... if and when they walk over you then fuck em Engloid 04-16-2006, 12:11 PM if i was being logical i would go with the dude making 100k+ a year instead of staying with my boy who barely pulls down less then 1/2 what i do.. logical is not always the correct way to do things... i feel you treat people the way you want to be treated... if and when they walk over you then fuck em
The difference is that with the current guy, you know very well what you have (bird in hand), but with the other guy (two in the bush) you may only know a shell or appearance that he's portraying on the outside. If you give up your guy for the second guy and then find out he's not nearly what you thought, you've made a mistake. Again, it's logic... just in a different way ;) Lyte- 04-16-2006, 02:26 PM The difference is that with the current guy, you know very well what you have (bird in hand), but with the other guy (two in the bush) you may only know a shell or appearance that he's portraying on the outside. If you give up your guy for the second guy and then find out he's not nearly what you thought, you've made a mistake. Again, it's logic... just in a different way ;)
in theory your correct... but the other guy is not (two birds in the bush) known him for about 6 years now and dated him way way before i got with my current guy... we only stopped dating cause his mom got sick and he moved back up north to take care of her....
but people do change over time... so the person i knew more then 6 years ago may not be the same person now...
in fact i told him that he is the one not trying to listen to me BallHawk3 04-18-2006, 06:21 PM Quick explanation of a woman after a baby (ecspecially a first baby) Dude you have what I like to call the "Lioness" on your hands right now, first of all women are straight *itches to eachother Bro, sometimes straight out and sometimes more subbliminal s/p?... Anyways after your first kid you have serious hormone level problems and emotional things to deal with, your body is in ruins (or so you feel) after your first kid, I mean damn men usually don't have this hit them till there mid life crisis when they loose a few hairs on there heads and gain a few pounds...please! Anyways what happened is that nice looking (probably childless chick, minus scars of labor ect) saw you with your new baby and thought "hmmm, Nice looking, Provider, with his self concious just had a kid old lady, prime time for me to show how "Cute" I am" I know that you had no idea what was going on but trust me your wife felt like taking that little cutsy chick down and riping her little head off :laughingr But relax just show her you love her tell her how much more beautiful she is now that she has beared your child and soon she will be back to her confident self that could care less if Pamela Anderson was "Flirting" with you! :thumbup:
wow, where the heck have u been? Princeslea79 04-23-2006, 09:18 AM wow, where the heck have u been?
Yeah I know I have not been on here for a grip, I have been so busy I started a Real Estate venture of rental homes and it has kept me slammed! Also been busy with my 5 yr olds first year of school. But the snow has melted the sun is shinning and you better believe my ass is riding!! So I am back :bounce marty313 04-25-2006, 07:22 AM Chics get crazy for a couple months after a baby is born.
There hormones are all out of whack. Engloid 04-25-2006, 08:42 AM Hormones are just a bullshit excuse for a woman to be a bitch.
Ever hear of a guy going to court and saying, "Your honor, I was taking steroids and they made me KO that old lady."
I don't think it would cut it...
CAUSE YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. There's no excuse for being a bitch. SoK 04-25-2006, 11:14 AM Hormones are just a bullshit excuse for a woman to be a bitch.
Ever hear of a guy going to court and saying, "Your honor, I was taking steroids and they made me KO that old lady."
I don't think it would cut it...
CAUSE YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. There's no excuse for being a bitch.
couldn't agree more. all the chicks i know that smoke bud are chill 99% of the time... everyone has there days though. chicks that don't smoke that i know are pretty much bitches a couple days out of the week.
lesson: smoke more herb :cool: Princeslea79 04-25-2006, 11:47 PM Hormones are just a bullshit excuse for a woman to be a bitch.
Ever hear of a guy going to court and saying, "Your honor, I was taking steroids and they made me KO that old lady."
I don't think it would cut it...
CAUSE YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. There's no excuse for being a bitch.
I do agree that you are responsible for your own actions and I don't think women should go on a murder rampage or anything.....But :infrandom (you knew that was a coming) just for a comparison, cut off your hormone supply so you have Zero normal hormones, have your nut sack ripped in two sew it back together bleed for six weeks, retain water, have cramps, a headache, and a new baby to deal with, then lets see how you feel :thefinger :infrandom
and to the comment about herb +a Million Bro it does help PMS...but for nursing moms it is NOT an option :headshake 01GSXRUSMC 04-27-2006, 05:18 AM haha, I didn't read all the posts but my comment is this: I would get the same treatment from my wife if she found out a woman was chatting iwth me over the bike...LOL..she'd probably make me sell the damn thing. But then again we have been through alot with each other and we are both insecure, her a little more than I think. But if talking with her doesn't change anything best thing to do is adhere to her wishes, you guys do have a baby together and its not worth losing her over something so simple even if it is quite rediculas ( Engloid 04-27-2006, 05:53 PM I do agree that you are responsible for your own actions and I don't think women should go on a murder rampage or anything.....But :infrandom (you knew that was a coming) just for a comparison, cut off your hormone supply so you have Zero normal hormones, have your nut sack ripped in two sew it back together bleed for six weeks, retain water, have cramps, a headache, and a new baby to deal with, then lets see how you feel :thefinger :infrandom
There's a difference in having a baby and acting like one. Believe it or not, you can have one without acting like one.
:rofl: Princeslea79 04-28-2006, 08:40 AM There's a difference in having a baby and acting like one. Believe it or not, you can have one without acting like one.
:rofl:
Really? Damn I would love to see you in labor :laughingr , Na but for real I have noticed that when men get sick they ARE big babies, but I know they just like being taken care of :infrandom Hence when we don't feel good we are just big ol bitches but when ya'll don't feel good it is baby can get ya get me this baby can ya rub my back ect ect ect...total double standard! Even though I dig taken care of my man when he is sick, dress up like a nurse and everything :laughingr
O ya and I think some chick is going off about this thread in a different thread check out My Boobs And my gixxer! not sure but it sounds like BW_750 is going off about having kids??? Either that or she needs to be posting on this thread! Damn girl is pissed something about golf and having babies and pussy men. Now she may need some serious smokable midol! :headshake
:thefinger Engloid 04-28-2006, 04:19 PM Hence when we don't feel good we are just big ol bitches but when ya'll don't feel good it is baby can get ya get me this baby can ya rub my back ect ect ect...total double standard!
It's not a double standard, it's two completely different sets of standards. The difference is that one is a man and one is a woman. Ever heard of the Bible? :cool: It says in there that women should SUBMIT to their husbands. It also says that a woman is answerable to her husband and God. Man is answerable only to God. Granted, the situation doesn't always work, but if it doesn't you likely just have a POS for a man.
O ya and I think some chick is going off about this thread in a different thread check out My Boobs And my gixxer!
I'll get right on it. Womens Lib Bashers to the rescue!!!! Psygnosis 04-28-2006, 05:33 PM It's not a double standard, it's two completely different sets of standards. The difference is that one is a man and one is a woman. Ever heard of the Bible? :cool: It says in there that women should SUBMIT to their husbands. It also says that a woman is answerable to her husband and God. Man is answerable only to God. Granted, the situation doesn't always work, but if it doesn't you likely just have a POS for a man.
I'll get right on it. Womens Lib Bashers to the rescue!!!!
That's exactly why I don't subscribe to such BS. King James is a sexist pig; if I want to dominate a woman I'll dominate a damn woman. I don't need to confuse / threaten a woman with what god will do to her. That would make me a damn pussy and then she should be dominating my ass. Sorry if I make no since to most men. I live in my own little world and it's quite different.
[/end rant] BallHawk3 04-28-2006, 05:38 PM hmmmm, this is all i have to say
PIITB!
:lol: Engloid 04-28-2006, 05:51 PM That's exactly why I don't subscribe to such BS. King James is a sexist pig; if I want to dominate a woman I'll dominate a damn woman. I don't need to confuse / threaten a woman with what god will do to her. That would make me a damn pussy and then she should be dominating my ass. Sorry if I make no since to most men. I live in my own little world and it's quite different.
[/end rant]
Live as you will....but when people lived with the man being head of the household, we didn't have kids killing each other in school, and the divorce rate was nothing near what it is now.
Even in a business partnership, very few survive that are an exact 50/50 split. Somebody should have the final call. SheSpawn 05-13-2006, 03:39 AM Live as you will....but when people lived with the man being head of the household, we didn't have kids killing each other in school, and the divorce rate was nothing near what it is now.
Even in a business partnership, very few survive that are an exact 50/50 split. Somebody should have the final call.
There is quite a bit more that contributes to the divorce rate and kids killing kids than simply women in the work place. Now I am a workign mother, but I beleive that my baby needs me so when I had a newborn each time I found a job that worked around me raising my child. CUrrently I am a Server Engineer and I work weekend nights, hence me posting at 5:00 on a saturday in Texas, so I believe in staying home with my kids, but to blame school violence and divorce on simply the change in family structure is silly. The world has changed drastically since hte "good ole days" including hte father's role in things. The rat race has gotten faster and harder and men spend more time away from their families and have to work a lot harder to support a family, maybe that has something to do with contributing to angry son's who have no father figure or lonely wives? Society as a whole has changed, the population has outgrown the natural ability of the earth to comfortably support us, there is more going on than simply working mothers. Engloid 05-13-2006, 06:09 PM There is quite a bit more that contributes to the divorce rate and kids killing kids than simply women in the work place.
It's not women in the workplace that is a problem, it's women NOT at home raising their kids. People put too much emphasis on what cars they drive and how big their house is, rather than who is raising their kids. It's not about man or woman either. I'd be more than happy to stay home if my wife was to work and pay all the bills.
Now I am a workign mother, but I beleive that my baby needs me so when I had a newborn each time I found a job that worked around me raising my child.
Anybody can chance a newborn's diaper...it's long after that where the kids need parents. You know, when they start to learn morals and right from wrong. This is where daycare and school fails, and that's if you even feel it's their job to teach those things.
CUrrently I am a Server Engineer and I work weekend nights, hence me posting at 5:00 on a saturday in Texas, so I believe in staying home with my kids, but to blame school violence and divorce on simply the change in family structure is silly.
If you are not the #1 strongest influence on your kids, then yes, family structure is the #1 biggest failure. SheSpawn 05-13-2006, 09:33 PM I am not saying that it isnt a big part of it. Like I said, I am a frim believer in being home for your kids. We have family time, family game time, family reading time. I talk to my kids every day about what they did today, what they learned, who their friends are. But society as a whole has changed and that plays a part in it too. not just mothers have taken less interest in their children, fathers have too, teachers are afraid of kids instead of wanting to help them. Violence is more prevalent everywhere, on tv, in cartoons, movies, video games. Now proper parentling can combat these things, but where as proper parenting was lacking int he days of old in some cases as well, those kids did not have the exterior influences that they once did. THe fact is, if you choose to have children, you should raise those children, and if you think that you can't work and raise kids, you are wrong, you jsut need to adjust your job. It can be done. Engloid 05-14-2006, 07:46 AM I am not saying that it isnt a big part of it. Like I said, I am a frim believer in being home for your kids. We have family time, family game time, family reading time. I talk to my kids every day about what they did today, what they learned, who their friends are.
And for those reasons and others, your kids will likely grow up to be better people than average. You will teach them the good things in live, but the bad things, kids will learn on their own. At least your kids will (hopefully) know the difference in the two and make decisions accordingly.
But society as a whole has changed and that plays a part in it too. not just mothers have taken less interest in their children, fathers have too...
ALthough there's probably no way to prove it, I think that in reality, fathers have become MORE involved in their kids lives than in years past. In the 50's a man would have been much less likely to change diapers, cook meals, and help their kids with everyday tasks. On the other hand, where women used to stay home with the kids all the time, they are now seldom doing that. In short, I think men are spending more time with kids than they did before, and women are spending less.
THe fact is, if you choose to have children, you should raise those children, and if you think that you can't work and raise kids, you are wrong, you jsut need to adjust your job. It can be done.
Although I agree with you for the most part, some jobs just don't facilitate having kids. Some fields of work don't offer part time or flexible hours. For example, I do welding...part time welding work is virtually impossible to find. If you find it, pay is good...but no benefits, and you can't even get normally scheduled hours. It's just an "as needed" basis that may be 20hrs this week and nothing for a month. SheSpawn 05-14-2006, 05:03 PM If you have a family structure, ie a husband and wife, and you choose to have children and the mother wants to be a working mother along with the father she can find SOMETHING to do that will aloow her to stay home. I don't work part time, I work full time, but I do it 3 13 hour shifts on the weekends, now this means that I have no weekends whatsoever I work come home and then sleep, wake up spend and hour iwth the family and go back to work, but I chose to have children and I need to own up to raising them. One of the partnership can change their jobs even if it means less money. People don't want to hear that though. I worked hard in my career for 5 years as a programmer to get where I was, I started off on a flex schedule so I could raise my children until both of them were in school, when I chose to have my lastest child I had to find a new job because the career I had chosen no longer allowed for me to work off hours. SO I started all over after 5 years. In the end it worked out becuase my daughter ended up being born with a severe heart condition and she cannot go to daycare even if I wanted her to, but I still owned up to my responsibility.
NOW, if you are a single mother or father lacking in family support, your options are more limited, and I was there too for a while. But if you are trying to tell me that in a family of 2 parents that one of them can't find a job that will allow the kids to stay out of daycare until they go to school, I strongly disagree. Engloid 05-14-2006, 05:11 PM If you have a family structure, ie a husband and wife, and you choose to have children and the mother wants to be a working mother along with the father she can find SOMETHING to do that will aloow her to stay home.
If you had 2 kids, daycare could easily cost more than a minimum wage job would pay. However, some people choose to do that, because they don't want to raise their kids and would rather pay a daycare.
But if you are trying to tell me that in a family of 2 parents that one of them can't find a job that will allow the kids to stay out of daycare until they go to school, I strongly disagree.
Parenting isn't over when kids go to school. School hours are not as long as a fulltime job..therefore, you can't squeeze in a full time job while kids are at school. SheSpawn 05-14-2006, 05:16 PM Once your kids are in school there are more options open to you. You can shift your hours so that one parent can be home with the kids. But it is far worse to leave your children in daycare all day than it is to have them go to a freinds house for 2 hours until you come home. YouKnowWhoIAmBiotch 05-19-2006, 09:17 PM 1. Does she have any reason (prior extra-curricular activities?) to suspect there's any chance you might cheat?
2. Is she feeling insecure because maybe she's worried you don't find her attractive after the baby?
3. How pissed is she going to be that you posted this on an internet forum instead of talking to her about your problems?
:funny: This is really funny considering this advice is coming from someone that had to email an admin on another thread to delete an entire thread cause she accused her own husband of cheating because she found panties that couldn't fit her in his sock drawer. DAMN!! LMAO!! PRICELESS! WTG! catchmeifucan 06-08-2006, 12:07 AM Why would you get mad at your husband for talking to a lady admiring your baby? Would you accuse your husband of cheating? Would you ask for a divorce? Please fill me in..... I dont understand my wife.... :headscrat
Tell her to get some councilling. Im a chick & i know we can be controlling but gee thats a bit too controlling. I suggest goin to councilling. to show her u care. and still love her.. HeX 06-08-2006, 06:44 AM That will never fix anything... She will always be like that you can only change that for a month or so then all women go back to how they were whether they are right or wrong or just dumb..I sort of had the same problem with my last ex I had a Orange 92 Katana and for some odd reason it got alot of attention and the girls loved it cause i had a nice comfy seat :P but everytime a girl even looked at me or even just the bike she would get mad :/
We talked about it and well she stopped for a little bit then back to the same ole shit...
If ya love her stick with it But make sure you both see eye to eye or it will never work in the longrun..
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