Serious question for the ladies

My girlfriend recently found out that her best friend's boyfriend (a friend of mine) has cheated on her with several of our coworkers (we all work together except the girl who is being decieved). My girlfriend is also friends with the cheater. I know that if this girl finds out that her boyfriend is cheating on her she'll be devastated. To compound the problem, my girlfriend's best friend has a tendency to cut herself when she gets depressed. Now she wants my advice as to whether or not she should tell her friend. I want nothing to do with this situation. I can't rat out a friend of mine but I can't tell my girl to pretend its not happening. That's why I'm asking all the ladies in GSXR land what they would tell my girlfriend. Thanks for the time.

im just wondering why you require 'female' advice on this

because every guy in the world is going to tell me to protect my friend, like its an unwritten code or something

Stay Out Of It And Play Dumb .... If Ur In It No Way You Can Win If Ur Friends Wit Both Of Them .... Dats My Advice

Stay Out Of It And Play Dumb .... If Ur In It No Way You Can Win If Ur Friends Wit Both Of Them .... Dats My Advice Why in the fuck do you type like that mister aznthug.... I say tell your buddy to tell his girl but keep a careful eye on her. Make sure she does not do anything dumb. That would be the best way. Cheating on someone is probably the dumbest things you can do. Just break up with the bitch and do random hook ups. :thumbup:

My girlfriend recently found out that her best friend's boyfriend (a friend of mine) has cheated on her with several of our coworkers (we all work together except the girl who is being decieved). My girlfriend is also friends with the cheater. I know that if this girl finds out that her boyfriend is cheating on her she'll be devastated. To compound the problem, my girlfriend's best friend has a tendency to cut herself when she gets depressed. Now she wants my advice as to whether or not she should tell her friend. I want nothing to do with this situation. I can't rat out a friend of mine but I can't tell my girl to pretend its not happening. That's why I'm asking all the ladies in GSXR land what they would tell my girlfriend. Thanks for the time. Sorry man but loyalty has nothing to do with sex. If it were a girl being cheated on or a guy; if my friend was a girl or a guy I would stay out of it. Every one gets cheated on, it's part of life. If I some how knew I’d just ask to be kept out the loop. Any female that tells you differently is bitter, sexist or living in another world (naive) just to satisfy your curiosity I will get a woman’s opinion.

[QUOTE=XPointBlakeX]Why in the fuck do you type like that mister aznthug.... it just comes out like that when i have the caps on ..... i don't know why but that's how it comes out

You know I dont think that one chick has posted about this situation. I would have asked the women myself. It sounds to me like the girl he is dating has an attention problem and it probably the reason he cheated on her. She is probably very unsecure and clingy,and he knew that if he broke up with her then she would do all of these scare techniques to try and get him back , but thats not what love is about. She is never going to get somebody to love her for her if she doesnt love herself. He really just needs to be straight up with her and say " I dont love you , there is nothing that you could do to make you love me, So dont play these stupid (I am going to kill myself) games" , then butter her up with "I know you will make someone a very happy person if you can change these few things about yourself, and blah blah blah, and end the conversation with all of the things you did love about her and mention all her good qualities" and walk out of her life forever. She will change, she just wants attention. And if she kills herself its better now then in 5-10 years with kids involved. I would make the friend either tell her ,and sinserly make up for cheating on her or just straight leave her and never let her know about any of this.

Keep out of it you will lose to friends and they will probs make up or he will bullshit here so good she wont no what is going on a little tip never admit it and even if the other person who was involved says they sleep with you. You can always get out of it. tip number 2 if your caught in bed with another woman by your wife you can save your marrige. Qoute I never had my friend inside her it's amazing what a woman will belive when that is what she wants to hear cause she loves you. I will not be held responsible if you get you nuts chopped off. lol this is advice only and has been tested. and works quit well. :funny:

I'll weigh in on this simply because I don't have an answer either way hehehe. BUT, i do know that no one likes someone sticking thier nose into other peoples business. I also know that when I was cheated on, you bet your ass I was HAPPY that someone told me. It was the day after and really I had no indication, so I was very glad to be told. Would you wanna know if someone was cheating on you? I never really agreed with the "Bro's before Ho's" line, mainly because I don't date Ho's, and I don't wanna spend the rest of my life sleeping wth my Bro's :P

He's your boy, screw her. If your g/f threatens to tell on him, smack her. :thumbup:

Well first of all you guy's all have very interesting advice...mostly the mind your own, stay out of it ect. That is cool cuz guy's function like that, which I respect, women just don't. Considering that the chick being cheated on is obviously emotionally unstable (she needs help if she is cutting herself!) , your girl just spilling the beans to her would be WAY to dramatic. You know the "last one to know scenerio" maybe since you said your girl is also friends with the guy she could just talk to him about the situation cuz if he is continuosly cheating then he is just living a lie to stay with this girl. If he wants to act single then he needs to make himself single period. If your girl feels like she does not want to get involved with it then cool, just DO NOT EVER ADMIT that ya'll knew all along he was running around on her cuz by not saying anything she would feel not only disrespected by him but disrespected and made a fool of by everyone that knew! I am serious about this chick needing help, a fellow rider pal of ours his girl was all weird like that and we ended up at the chicks funeral about a year ago, she tied her arm off and snipped her vein in half with a pair of gardening scissors! She did it when he left her, cuz he was tired of all her BS! Very sad bro, your friend should really think about the situation he is creating by staying with this chick not even to mention the whole cheating deal! :headshake

have a threesome then brake the news with both of them, j/k :laughingr :laughingr :laughingr

Ok, so I am a psych major and the thing that stands out is hte fact that the girl being cheated on is a cutter. Generally people who are of this pursuasion of mental defect are self destructive in all they do, including relationships. They thrive on chaos, and cutting helps them to numb emotional pain as well as gets them attention if they make it known. Its a delicate situation but I am going to have to say most likely this person has been cheated on before and has had her share of these types of destructive relationships. SHe is severely emotioanlly scarred to begin with so I would not want to be the bearer of bad news, int he same respect wouldn't your girl feel bad if her friend ends up with some sort of disease she may not have gotten if he wasnt a cheating POS. I say she may want to approach the BF on this and let him know that he should jsut cut the enotionally disturbed girl out. He is probably hanging on anyway out of fear that she will do something drastic.