I personally think that perfect matching is gay and squidish and a sure sign that the rider spends more time in a dealer looking at accessories like tank pads, neon lights, strobes, and LED tire valve caps than he does riding. Wear what you want especially if you like it. For example, I have 4 leather jackets and 2 full leathers and all are different colors and only one jacket matches my bike. I also have 4 Suomy helmets...not to match the jackets but because I liked the graphics for those particular helmets. I mix and match all the time.
Just don't paint the treads of your tires with a paint pen to match your bike...that's the worst and gayest thing I've ever seen.